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August 1, 2012

By Father Kyle Schnippel

A few weeks ago, I was asked and gladly accepted to be a part of our first CREDO retreat in the northern part of the Archdiocese of Cincinnati.

Held on the beautiful grounds of the Maria Stein Retreat Center, where I had often gone as a teen for retreats, we gathered more than 80 young people for four days of prayer and reflection, funnily enough on the topic of prayer. What is it? How does it happen? Styles of prayer and other related topics. We wanted to give the attendees not only information about prayer, but many opportunities to experience prayer, to begin a life-long habit of prayer and the habit of journeying with Christ to our homeland in heaven.


As we put together the retreat, there was something of a science to prayer that we wanted to convey, for there certainly are “steps” that one can take for growth in one’s prayer life.


But so much of prayer, in fact the very source of prayer, does not start with the individual who is praying, but is actually a graced moment from God himself. He is the author of the prayer of the individual in that great twist of faith that so often happens.


Because God is the both the source and the summit of our prayer life, the routine of personal prayer can certainly help us “clue in” to what God is doing in our lives. But ultimately, prayer is that deeper conversation between the heart of the believer and God. So, while there is certainly a “science” to prayer, there is also an art to it as well, a certain requirement for flair, for the unexpected.


This is where the challenge can really arise, especially for those of us who live in the modern world. So much of what we are formed in by this culture is to be in control, to take charge and be a “self made man (or woman),” as it were. In prayer, this is exactly the opposite. Instead, it is the call to “let go and let God.” Yikes! Because when He takes over, who knows just how deep the rabbit hole really can go!


This is where the Catechism of the Catholic Church turns an interesting phrase. For in discussing prayer in Part IV, they certainly hit the section which we all experience at some point in our lives’ spiritual dryness, or as St. Paul so eloquently termed, “the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”


The catechism terms this struggle “The Battle for Prayer,” recognizing that “prayer is both a gift of grace and a determined response on our part” (CCC 2725). While that initial definition seems to be rather easy to embrace, it is that second half, the “determined response,” that can lead to difficulties, especially when we bump into those physical and spiritual limits that sometimes come our way and realize that to “pray always” actually does take work!


In response to the dryness, the lack of faith that sometimes arises in prayer, or simply the laziness that is easy to succumb to in prayer, the catechism calls us first to a filial trust: the trust that God, as Father, hears our prayers and provides the gentle encouragement, not always in the way we want, but in the way we need.


Often, when we experience these frustrations and dry-spells, we throw in the towel and give up with a thought that our prayers are not efficacious. However, it is precisely in these moments that our prayer takes on a deeper level, because we do not prayer so that we see the results, but rather so that we might be drawn deeper to God, and that is something that only He can do in us.


Blessed Mother Theresa of Calcutta experienced years of darkness and dryness in her prayer, which strangely enough became part of the secret to her great success. Shall we not also expect the same?

Father Schnippel is the vocation director for the Archdiocese of Cincinnati.


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